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Some Background
Welcome and thank you for coming to our blog! Over the course of this blog we hope to share our personal experience as a couple that has decided to take the plunge away from monogamy and explore other...
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Family & Friend Reactions: Coming Out
We decided to tell a select group of family and friends about our adventures outside of monogamy. Part of this for me (K) was about authenticity and honesty in my day-to-day life. I don’t want to feel...
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February was a Busy Month!
Yikes! I can’t believe I haven’t posted in a month and a half! That is way too long… and it’s not because we haven’t been pursuing open opportunities, communicating, negotiating, and having fun… that...
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Merging the Academic with the Personal
I explored something kind of uncomfortable, but necessary, in counseling this week: When and how will (or if) I decide to disclose 1) that I am in an open relationship, and 2) that I am a stripper now...
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I Did It
I disclosed dancing to my cohort this week. I thought I was going to throw up, but I did it! Also, now that it’s over with, I feel like school and talking to people in my cohort feels easy-breezy. In...
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In the Closet Again
I am so excited that I have been able to stay involved in the local Sex Worker Outreach Coalition as part of my work. It gives me something to stay motivated about when I am sitting at a desk for eight...
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Sex Workers, the Internet, & Stigma
Last night I had the pleasure of being interviewed by Emily Kennedy, a sociology PhD student studying the role of the Internet in shaping the ways in which we view sex work and sex workers. It was a...
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Body Dysmorphic Disorder
As many of my long-time readers and friends know, I have struggled with body image for a long time- since I was about 8. There have been periods in my life which have felt better and periods which I...
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Coming Out Like a Porn Star
I read Jiz Lee’s Coming out Like a Porn Star over spring break and was so happy I finally had some time for pleasure reading. This book totally delivered on being thought-provoking, insightful, and...
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